Importance of pheromones in flirting and body language
A subtle way of getting the attention of the opposite sex is
through their nose. While you are trying to figure out how, let me
explain some background. The olfactory bulb at the top (inside) of the
nose feeds directly into the old brain limbic system, which is the most
primitive part of the brain. This is where the emotions, sexual
responses and body language are initiated. That is why odors can evoke
powerful basic instinctual emotions.
About one percent of human genes (and that is a lot!) encode our
ability to detect approximately 10,000 scents. Smell accounts for the
largest gene family yet discovered in mammals. Aroma cues are taken
very seriously by the brain. Odors guide one to eating, mating and
avoiding danger.
Pheromones are chemical molecules produced by insects, animals and
humans. These molecules are so strong they affect the behavior of those
who inhale or ingest them. For the most part, these chemicals are used
to stimulate sexual interest in the opposite sex. Some insects and
animals will not mate without first getting a whiff of their
prospective partner. After a good sniff of the right chemicals
signaling good health and a more than receptive attitude, there is
nothing stopping the insects and animals from mating. For example,
pheromones produced by male cockroaches attract female cockroaches. Not
only that, it causes them to get into the correct mating position!
Some commercially-available substances claim that they contain sex
pheromones and can act as an aphrodisiac. These claims generally are
greatly exaggerated and have not been demonstrated scientifically. A
few well-controlled scientific studies have been published
demonstrating that humans may be affected by pheromones in some
circumstances. One study involves the synchronization of menstrual
cycles among women living together. The evidence indicates the
synchronization is done unconsciously by their pheromones.
Other studies have suggested that women can use odor cues to select
males who will increase chances for a healthy offspring. In 1995, Claus
Wedekind of the University of Bern in Switzerland asked a group of
women to smell some unwashed t-shirts worn by different men. The women
were able to sniff the shirts and reject (said they were "offensive")
those shirts worn by males closely related to themselves. The women
were attracted to clothing that was worn by males with a very different
immune system than their own. Presumably, this difference in immune
systems allows the male and female to combine their defenses and give
their offspring the best chances for survival.
Pheromone production in humans becomes functional after reaching
puberty. This could explain why most people become attracted to the
opposite sex at puberty. Pheromones could also be the reason why we
feel an instant attraction, or dislike, when we first meet someone. It
may be their smell that turns us 'on' or 'off' to them.
Human pheromones are highly individualized and not always noticeable.
In 1986 Dr. Winifred Cutler, a biologist and behavioral
endocrinologist, discovered pheromones in humans' underarms. She found
that once any overbearing underarm sweat was removed, what remained
were the odorless materials containing the pheromones.
The dominant chemical scent secreted by humans is a pungent, musky
scent, with male's odor stronger than female's. Much of the chemical
scent is produced by dense concentrations of apocrine glands in the
underarms, and by lesser concentrations in the face, scalp, ears, navel
and genital area. This is not just one chemical but apparently is made
up of hundreds of compounds in individualized combinations so each
person has a distinct odor. People of eastern origin (China, Japan,
Korea) have far fewer apocrine glands (and armpit odor) than Europeans
and Africans.
Overall, the human sweat smell is a natural, animal-like, musky aroma
which can be emotionally stimulating and sexually attractive. To many
men and women the smell of clean skin and a little fresh sweat is the
most powerful turn-on. In crowded places this is a subtle odor that
gets hidden under the other odors such as food, smoke and any polluting
chemicals in the air. Therefore, some men and women have resorted to
their own chemical warfare with manufactured fragrances in scented
products for skin and hair. These fragrances are often from flowers or
herbs, or they imitate them.
There is historical evidence for the use of sweat to attract a mate.
Once when Napoleon Bonaparte was returning home from a long period of
warring he sent a message ahead to Josephine: "Home in three days.
Don't wash." Old English folk tales passed down over many generations
told young men how to seduce a young woman with his own sweat. The
'secret' was to place a clean linen handkerchief under his clean arm
pit while he danced and twirled the young lady making her dizzy. After
the dance, as she recovered, he was to fan her and dab her perspiring
forehead with his pheromone saturated handkerchief. The results
reportedly were guaranteed to be rewarding.
Desperate women from the Austrian and Swiss Alps also had their own
secret weapon to capture men. They would place a part, or even a whole,
peeled apple under their arm before the dancing started. After a series
of dances they would discreetly remove their apple (and its secret
chemical load) to give to the man to smell and eat. It was called a
'love apple' and came with an unwritten guarantee to produce its own
rewards for both the woman and man.
In one research project, men preferred women's clean sweat odor over
the most expensive perfumes, even when the sweat odor was
imperceptible. Over 200 chemical compounds are secreted by the human
body in sweat, saliva and genitals. Recent research identified that the
arm pit and crotch secretions of men and women differ significantly.
Not surprisingly, men and women each prefer the odor of the opposite
sex. Very important factors that have great influence on the
effectiveness of the sweat as an attractant are a person's cleanliness,
diet and overall health.
Interestingly, some research unexpectedly found that women who live
closely with a man (sleep with him and have frequent sex) have better
balanced physiology. Menstrual cycles are more regular and overall
health is better than women who live more isolated from men. The main
factor appeared to be how much olfactory exposure (i.e smells) each
woman had with the man and his body odors.
The pheromone 'androstenone' (a musky odor) has been identified in the
sweat and urine of men and is presumed to be a sexual stimulant to
women but has an adverse effect on men. It induces anger in men if it
is from another man! Androstenone reportedly has been synthetically
manufactured and is being sold in various solutions on the Internet.
According to Chicago neurologist Alan Hirsch Ph.D., men's cologne
usually causes a decrease in women's vaginal blood flow unless it is a
natural fresh scent. What makes a man appealing to most women are light
sprays and deodorants on him, such as ocean breeze, kiwi, or a
combination of baby powder and chocolate. The smell of his own clean
skin with a little fresh sweat, combined with fresh fruity scents, is
the strongest stimulant for a female. Hirsch discovered that men's
penile blood flow increased up to 40% from the smell of cinnamon buns,
roast meat, cheese pizza, chocolate, vanilla or peppermint.
So what can we make of all this? Maybe it is all very simple. Perhaps a
'turn-on' for men is either a pheromone from a woman or vanilla and
chocolate ice cream on fresh baked apple pie with lots of cinnamon. For
women it may be the right soiled T-shirt. Oh well, whatever turns you
on, go for it!
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